Why Is the Strawberry Generation Often Considered Easily Discouraged by Life Challenges?
Gusti Ayu Tita P
23 September 2026
The term Strawberry Generation is often used to describe young people who are considered sensitive, easily stressed, or less prepared to face difficult situations. The term does not mean that every young person has the same personality or cannot handle challenges. Instead, it describes a social perception that has developed because younger generations face different pressures from previous generations.
Modern life brings many challenges, including academic pressure, career competition, financial concerns, social expectations, and rapid technological changes. These situations can affect how young people respond to failure and uncertainty. Understanding the reasons behind this perception can help us see the issue more objectively and identify ways to build stronger resilience.
HIGH EXPECTATIONS CAN CREATE EMOTIONAL PRESSURE
One reason the Strawberry Generation is sometimes considered easily discouraged is the high expectations placed on young people. They may feel pressure to achieve good grades, build a successful career, earn enough money, and meet expectations from family and society. When reality does not match these expectations, disappointment can become stronger.
Social media can also increase this pressure because young people constantly see other people's achievements. They may compare their education, appearance, lifestyle, career, or financial situation with others. Constant comparison can make ordinary setbacks feel like personal failures and reduce confidence when facing challenges.
SOCIAL MEDIA CAN INCREASE COMPARISON
Social media provides many benefits, but it can also influence how young people view success and failure. People usually share positive moments online, such as achievements, vacations, celebrations, or career progress. As a result, users may compare their everyday lives with the carefully selected moments shown by others.
This situation can create unrealistic expectations about what a successful life should look like. When young people experience difficulties that are not visible online, they may feel that they are falling behind. Healthy social media habits can therefore be important for maintaining a realistic perspective and reducing unnecessary pressure.
FEAR OF FAILURE CAN REDUCE CONFIDENCE
Failure is a normal part of learning, but some young people may have difficulty accepting it. When someone is strongly afraid of making mistakes, they may avoid challenging situations because they do not want to experience disappointment. This can make them appear less willing to face problems.
In reality, avoiding failure can prevent a person from developing valuable experience. Failure can become a learning opportunity when it is evaluated properly. Young people can gradually develop confidence by starting with manageable challenges, learning from mistakes, and understanding that one unsuccessful experience does not define their entire future.
RAPID CHANGES MAKE LIFE MORE UNCERTAIN
The modern world changes quickly because of technology, economic conditions, and changing workplace expectations. Young people may need to learn new skills while also preparing for careers that continue to evolve. This uncertainty can create stress, especially when they feel that their current abilities may not be enough.
However, rapid change can also encourage young people to become more adaptable. Adaptability is an important life skill because it allows individuals to adjust when circumstances change. Instead of expecting everything to remain stable, young people can focus on continuous learning and developing skills that remain useful in different situations.
FINANCIAL AND CAREER PRESSURE CAN BE CHALLENGING
Young people today may face concerns about employment, living costs, education expenses, and financial independence. Entering the workforce can also be difficult because employers may expect both academic qualifications and practical skills. These pressures can make the transition from education to professional life feel overwhelming.
Financial difficulties should not automatically be interpreted as personal weakness. Economic conditions and employment opportunities can influence people's experiences. Developing financial literacy, career planning, and practical skills can help young people make more informed decisions and prepare for different possibilities.
LACK OF RESILIENCE CAN MAKE CHALLENGES FEEL HEAVIER
Resilience refers to the ability to recover and continue moving forward after experiencing difficulties. People develop resilience through experience, reflection, support, and repeated attempts to solve problems. If someone has had limited opportunities to practice dealing with setbacks, difficult situations may initially feel overwhelming.
Resilience is not something that people either have or do not have. It can be developed over time through small challenges and healthy coping strategies. Learning to manage emotions, asking for support, setting realistic goals, and solving problems step by step can help young people become more prepared for difficult situations.
SUPPORT SYSTEMS CAN HELP YOUNG PEOPLE BECOME STRONGER
Family, friends, teachers, mentors, and communities can play an important role when young people experience difficulties. Having someone who listens without immediately judging can make challenges feel more manageable. Support does not mean solving every problem for someone, but helping them develop the confidence to handle problems independently.
Young people also need opportunities to make decisions and learn from the consequences. Balanced support and independence can help them develop responsibility without feeling abandoned. When young people are encouraged to face challenges while still having a healthy support system, they can gradually become more confident and resilient.
CONCLUSION
The Strawberry Generation is sometimes considered easily discouraged because young people may face high expectations, social media comparison, fear of failure, career pressure, financial concerns, and rapid social changes. However, this label should not be used to describe every young person because individuals have different backgrounds, experiences, personalities, and levels of resilience.
The ability to face challenges can be developed through adaptability, emotional management, practical experience, healthy support systems, and continuous learning. Rather than focusing only on whether young people are strong or weak, it is more useful to understand the pressures they face and help them develop the skills needed to respond to challenges in a healthy way.
Tentang Penulis
Gusti Ayu Tita P
Penulis — Universitas STEKOM
Penulis aktif yang berfokus pada isu-isu akademik, teknologi pendidikan, dan pengembangan sumber daya manusia di lingkungan kampus.